1. MARRIED IN PERSONAL READINESS (PERSONAL)
- EMOTIONAL MATURITY
Marriage readiness is having the emotionally mature person is able to identify and express themselves as well as her feelings in a healthy and positive, have the ability to give and receive love in a balanced way, has the ability to face reality and deal with life events in a positive, can learn from the experiences and events that give rise to frustration, and capable of addressing any problems and difficulties in a constructive manner.
- READINESS AGE
The age of marriage preparation is maturity does not not directly proportional to age. However, the process of maturity is determined by the process of learning from experience. Thus, should marry if it is old enough to marry and to avoid marriage below the age of their home life unhappy.
2. READINESS SITUATION (CIRCUMSTANTIAL) COVERS
- FINANCIAL READINESS
Marriage preparation financially: the economic factor is important in sustaining the continuity of marriage. Capabilities provide for the family (giving money to their home life) is one of the requirements for a man to marry.
- READINESS TIME
Wedding preparations to take the course so that the marriage is not in a hurry. If all the wedding plans laid out right then everything will go well and we can have a happy moment.